With the cooperation of ChatGPT

A few days ago, a message from Cynthia Hendricks, affectionately known as ‘the lady with the ski poles, popped up in my mailbox, inquiring if I was still at the helm of Cochonnetmarin.com

Indeed, Cynthia, I am, albeit at a more measured pace, engaging in an experimental partnership with ChatGPT (Generative Pre-trained Transformers).

Presently, my inclination to write has dwindled. Fueled by the cheering of irresponsible leaders, numerous extremist groups worldwide are goaded into acts of violence and aggression against their neighbors. Isn’t it clear to them that such senseless brutality only begets retaliation, perpetuating a cycle of more violence? Even a young child in kindergarten comprehends this principle: Qui sème le vent récolte la tempête.”

Like many of my contemporaries, I hold strong democratic views, but I refrain from fruitless controversies on my blog. What purpose would it serve? It would merely add fuel to an already blazing firestorm.

In the evenings, my anticipation of being uplifted by TV news is routinely disappointed. Instead of enlightenment, what unfolds is an unrelenting procession of tragedies—a cacophony of conflicts, wars, and calamities. It’s not the content I wish to witness or absorb.

My good spirits hinge upon witnessing ordinary acts of kindness or courage. I yearn to witness “La Vie en Rose,” an existence colored by optimism, rather than perpetually engulfed by grim news.

When tired of American channels, I turn to TV5 Monde, a French broadcasting outlet. Its content seems to place less emphasis on gore and violence in its daily broadcasts. I don’t wish to be oblivious to the grim realities of murder and violence worldwide, but I refuse to be overwhelmed by them.

Reflecting on it, the cause of these predicaments is rooted in ignorance, poverty, and inequality. These issues could be easily eradicated if a fraction of the billions spent on wars and destruction were channeled into construction and restoration.

Hence, Cynthia, you’ve heard little from me lately. But when peace prevails in places like Ukraine or the Middle East, just like the Phoenix, I might resurrect and resume writing once more.

Alain

PS: I find ChatGPT rather pompous and try to tame it as much as possible.

My buddy Charlie

Yesterday, along with scores of people, I attended a party celebrating the life of Charlie Davantes. It was very well organized and extremely successful. Good old Charlie knew a lot of people and many of his friends came to pay him respect.

Somehow, this gathering reminded me of a song by Charles Aznavour called La Mamma.

« Ils sont venus. Ils sont tous là.
Dès qu’ils ont entendu ce cri.
Elle va mourir, la 
mamma.
Ils sont venus.
Ils sont tous là.
Même ceux du sud de l’Italie »

There were 60 players and scores of guests, and everybody thoroughly enjoyed this event organized by Brigitte Moran and her close family. As I previously said it was very well thought out and everything went without an hitch. I believe that this was the most enjoyable event that I attended this year. Merci Brigitte.

Coffee and croissants were served early that day, and 3 games were played before lunch. During all that time we were entertained by a very talented French couple called Duo Gadjo. The woman sang popular French songs (and played guitar) and was accompanied by her husband who also played guitar. It was a great idea and an added pleasure.

For lunch, we were served a sumptuous paella prepared by another French fellow called Wilfried Eisinger. It was excellent and plentiful.

In the afternoon, there was a Concours and a Consolante. You can see some pictures in the accompanying photo album.

 Concours:
1st place: Patrick, Shannon and Holly
2nd place: Lucas, Frazer and Roland

Consolante:
1st place: Richard, Lynn and Ben
2nd place: Jean-Claude, Luc and Alain

Charlie, along with Louis Toulon was one of La Pétanque Marinière’s original founders, and a hard worker to boot. He was also instrumental in having a fence built around our field. He (along with other members) donated a substantial amount of money to the club to get it done.

He was a great pétanque player and I teamed up with him many times. Among other things, I always envied the fact that he was ambidextrous.

Charlie, up to his last days always kept a sharp mind. He was a great belote player, and more importantly, he always counted cards and remembered each sequence of the game. I always admired the fact that after each of our games, he quickly tallied up everybody’s scores in his head. Not bad for a guy in his nineties

He was also a lucky fellow. Late in life, he met a charming woman who became his loving companion and shared his life.  Even Gerry (the so-called Golden Bachelor) a young stud in his seventies, has trouble finding a mate.

Charlie, you are gone, but far from being forgotten. I am pretty sure that while lounging on a cloud and sipping a Piña Colada, you were smiling while looking at us.

Vaya con Dios amigo…

Alain

PS: Watch some pictures of this event by clicking on “My Photos

A family affair

Between 30 and 35 people gathered yesterday on our pétanque field to attend our Annual Business Meeting… and it felt like a family affair. A past to remember, a present to celebrate, a future to generate.

Christine, our esteemed president, gave a little speech about the state of our club and the state of our finances. Both are in good shape, thank you very much. She thanked the Board Members for their dedication and cooperation.

Commemorating the demise of Verena and Charlie, she went a little emotional and as expected, shed a few tears. She was then presented with a flower bouquet by Shama and Sara Danielson. A bouquet that she totally deserves. Over the years Mama Cragg has been a very good president, and she absolutely merits this small token of appreciation and even more.

A light lunch, reminiscent of our yesteryear picnics, was served around noon. It consisted of an excellent roasted chicken, some side dish, salad cheese, and homemade cookies. By the way, the chicken also greatly appealed to wasps who came by the dozens to share the festivities.

The picnic was very well organized, with many people lending a hand. Alain Marchand helped by Mike Rago oversaw the chicken operation. Mike O’Leary and Christine did the serving. Almost everybody helped and everything went very smoothly.

Sabine brought Florence (her Parisian friend), Richard, and Deborah (her daughter-in-law), and naturally César the wonder dog (a great fan of pétanque) loved by all.

Claudie Chourré and Christine Lemor-Drake who had not seen for a long time also made a welcome appearance.

After lunch, we split up into small groups for a few games of pétanque. The temperature was then hovering around 95 degrees and we (at least me) felt grateful for the founders who had the good idea to plant trees on the field.

Due to the oppressive temperature, most of the people didn’t linger, and around 4:00 p.m. most everybody had left the field.

Altogether, it was a nice family affair that I am sure pleased everybody.

Well done, board members, and thank you!

Alain

 PS: I don’t function well under the heat, so I took just a few pictures.