A few years ago, when I began experiencing hearing difficulties, I became acutely aware of the qualities that make effective speaking.
Speech is a uniquely human gift, setting us apart from the animal kingdom. Yet, despite this universal ability, many people speak poorly. Left unaddressed, this shortcoming can limit their social and professional progress, as effective communication is often a prerequisite for leadership.
As Gerald R. Ford once said:
“If I went back to college again, I’d concentrate on two areas: learning to write and to speak before an audience. Nothing in life is more important than the ability to communicate effectively.”
While speech may come naturally, excellence in speaking requires effort. Some excel, others struggle, and many falter due to a lack of vocabulary, poor pronunciation, or unclear delivery. To win others, each word must be carefully chosen, distinctly pronounced, and clearly understood.
The good news? Unlike character flaws, poor speaking skills can be corrected.
Take Demosthenes, one of history’s greatest orators. Despite a speech impediment, this ancient Greek speaker practiced speaking tirelessly, even training with pebbles in his mouth to improve his articulation. His dedication paid off, earning him a place among the most celebrated speakers of all time.
Similarly, the story of King George VI, depicted in The King’s Speech, offers inspiration. Struggling with a severe stutter, the British monarch sought help and ultimately triumphed over his affliction. His perseverance reminds us that effective communication is within anyone’s grasp—with the right effort and support.
Yet, the world isn’t devoid of mediocre speakers who attract followers. As the French proverb goes, “Qui se ressemble, s’assemble”—those who resemble one another tend to stick together. An idiot in a crowd of like-minded individuals will find validation, fostering a sense of collective “rightness.”
Sadly, this dynamic often paves the way for false messiahs—leaders who seem charismatic at first, but ultimately reveal their feet of clay. And when they falter, their earliest supporters are often the first to throw stones at them.
In the end, the truth has a way of prevailing. The flaws of these false idols are eventually laid bare, and balance is restored. Eventually, the Gods will wake up and clean house.
Alain
It’s increasingly common today to encounter children who seem more knowledgeable than their parents—especially when it comes to technology and media. Kids are naturally curious, and their young, adaptable minds absorb information like sponges. They’re essentially large empty hangars, storing everything they experience.